Men need to believe in themselves

So lately I have been hearing story after story about men that are miserable in life because of some woman that they have fallen for. I have seen it ever since my Army days. Men letting women walk all over them because they think they have found their true love. Men do me a favor and just grow up. How is a woman ever going to believe in you and fall for you if you don't believe in yourself? Women only like walking all over a man to a point. That is why they get tired of it, and move on to the next one. And then that poor guy is holding his broken heart in his hands wandering what he did wrong. Why do you think so many women are attracted to bad boys? Its because they might not have much else, but they do have the balls to stand up to them. MEN, stand up for yourself! First, find out and know who you are, before you try to get someone to believe in you. Tom, your no expert. Look at you, your single at 31 and have not had many long relationships. My answer is, that is true because of two things. I have usually dated women that are weaker then me in self-confidence and other areas of life to make me feel better. Second, when I have gone after the stronger woman with more to offer. I was to weak in self-confidence and backbone that these women could see right thru me. So what do you do? You quit dating these silly women that are willing to give it up too easily and then run once you show your weak backbone. You take time to work on your mental, physical and spirtual side to grow stronger for you and no one else. Then you wouldn't believe what kind of women you start attracting. :-) A woman is not going to try and find out who you are if you don't even know who you are.
How do I know if I am with one of those silly girls? Ask yourself a few questions. Does she have a negative affect on friendships? Does she play with your emotions? Does she flirt with other guys right in front of you? They only do it because we allow it. Good luck. Have a great day all! This advice is free. :-)